Sunday, November 22, 2015

Can't Wait to See My Sweetie!




So I've been on my own on the lake for two weeks now.  While I consider myself to be an introvert and actually enjoy (and need) quite a bit of time to myself, even I have reached my limit.

In talking to Kent yesterday, he recommended that I go to Walmart and buy a volleyball and marker and create my own "Wilson" like the Tom Hanks movie Cast Away so I can have someone to talk to.  It's good to have a sympathetic brother.  He and Lydia are trying their darn-dest to get their house sold in Friendswood so they can join me in this winter wonderland.  I think it will be much more fun when I have some company to experience this with me.

I was warned that 75% of the population in Vallecito leaves for the winter and many of those who stay have jobs so they don't have a lot of time to hang out and play with me.  I think I'd feel better if I had internet and my furniture was here.  I don't have much furnishing-wise in the house.  Even still, I'd probably want to drive the 20 minutes south to the library in Bayfield or 40 minutes SW to Durango for some sort of human interaction.

I told Reid I was getting lonely and he said it MUST be serious if I'm getting lonely.  Being the extrovert, he doesn't always see things the way I do.  Thankfully, he's flying in today to spend the week with me including Thanksgiving.   He's got to work a few days so I'm going to take him to the Durango Co-working space (DurangoSpace) where we can both get a good strong internet connection and he can connect with his team via teleconferencing as he so often does.

I had a 10 day trip planned to go to Kona, Hawaii in early December with my dear friends Greg and Chris from the Boulder community but it appears that Reid's custody trial is scheduled for that time so I'll be back in Houston for that on Dec 7th.  I'll forgo the Hawaii trip for now.  Reid promised he'd take me there another time when we could both go and have fun.

So any of my friends who want to come for a visit in a beautiful albeit primitive place....come on.  You may have to sleep on the floor but the heat works and I'll make sure you get fed.  Those who have carpentry skills or just a bunch of energy or ideas for painting and other improvements are especially welcomed.      


Thursday, November 19, 2015

So this is what it's like when it snows

When I got back to Vallecito last Monday night (Nov 9th), the cabin I'd been sleeping in was frigidly cold. The pilot light was out on the propane wall heater so I pulled the foam pad from the RV into the house and slept on it on the floor in the big carpet-less den. At least it was warm. The next morning I checked the propane tanks and the cabin's tank was empty. Even though the walls in cute little cabin #2 are insulated, the pipes are not so I decided to once again move the things that I had moved from the Navi into cabin #2 into the house. The good news, it's not a lot and now I'm not wandering from the cabin and the Navi and the house looking for things.



The big issues were to get cabin #2 winterized along with the Navi and to try to find a place to store the Navi down in town (Bayfield or Durango) before it gets snowed in. There is an RV park 20 min south in Bayfield that will let me park it there and when/if the weather is too nasty to drive up the mountain, I can stay there for the night and plug into electrical. It's not covered but the price is right at $50/month and the Navi gets to stay with other RVs so there will be someone looking out for her.

After pulling up the nasty shag carpet in the den of the house some time ago, I painted the floor yesterday while it snowed outside. I used muscles I forgot I had. To all my friends who pay for gym memberships, try manual labor—you get a workout and get to see that you've accomplished something. I'd say it's free but that's not exactly the case but at least it's cheaper doing the work myself and I have a feeling of accomplishment.

I know there were plenty of days at work where I would have liked to have finished something without all the drawn out meetings and decision makers who had to give their approval.

While it was a dreary snowy day yesterday, today the sun came out and because my internet was not working well, I decided to drive into town. While I was hopeful that my internet situation was improving by living in the house by using my ATandT hotspot on my iPhone, it's back to working about 25% of the time.


My brother Kent said it was difficult to understand the importance of the internet considering he works with his hands.  After thinking about it for a while, I decided that for him, it would be like not having electricity. He could still do his work (he owns a roofing business) but it would have to be done by hand.  For me, I can pick up the phone and call people or drive into town but sending a quick email is so much faster.

Things do take longer here. You call a plumber. He doesn't return your call. You call someone you heard was reliable to deliver firewood and are promised delivery on a certain date and it doesn't happen. I guess it's the price to pay for living in the boonies.

I joined the Vallecito Service League and met about 20 women at a luncheon last week. It was a mix of women young and old and big and small. Just about everyone I've met so far is very friendly.  What a rare treat to be able to have a long lunch in the middle day and not have to worry about getting back to the office.

The family who runs Pine River Lodge across the street are tutoring me when I drop by for visits. From what to do when deer jump out in front of me, to how to drive in the snow, how to shrink wrap your windows for insulation, how to respect propane, how to treat service folks so they'll treat you right, etc. 

After one of my visits, the previous owner (Mary Green) stopped by to meet me.  She was staying at the Lodge across the street.  She's full of good information and a real delight. I was wondering why so many people knew her and it turns out she's a business banker at Wells Fargo...plus she's lived in the area for 25 years and it's a fairly small community.

I was surprised when I drove into Durango to switch propane service into my name, the girl there knew the property and the situation with the cabins. I tell people that I bought the old “Durango Resort on Lake Vallecito” or some know it as Rainbow Lodge or as Lakehaven. Just by mentioning one of those names, most people know the property.

Unfortunately I didn't find a 4WD in Houston nor have I found one up here yet. So this morning I backed out of my covered parking space and promptly got stuck. While one of my neighbors plows the road in the subdivision leading up to the county road which is plowed daily for the school bus, the 10 feet from my carport to the subdivision road was not plowed. There was probably 6 inches of snow with some ice mixed in. I backed out with intention---of not getting stuck but it was not to be.

When I got out to size up the situation, I noticed that my right front tire was flat. I got my small air compressor out of the RV and aired up the tire and checked all the others too. I found some flat pieces of lumber and stuck them in front of the 4 tires and struggled some more. I decided to back up and try again and finally made it to the subdivision road where I could get some traction. I have to drive up a 12' section of gravel road to make it to the county road and then take a sharp left turn to get on the pavement. I got a running start and drove quickly (but not too quickly because I could slide off the top of the road when I got there) and damn it if a truck wasn't coming on the left so I had to stop and risk getting stuck again. Rather than making the hard turn to the left, I drove straight out in the opposite direction that I wanted to go and found a dry spot to turn around. I stopped a time or two to make sure the flat tire was still inflated for the 40 mile trip to Durango. I was either going to buy snow tires for my Jeep 2WD or an old 4WD Subaru whichever materialized first.  

I drove to Discount Tires and they installed the best winter tires they have called Bliz mates or some such things. After a late lunch in town, I picked up some snow cables at Auto Zone and got instruction on how to install them. Once again, I think I'll be using some muscles I didn't know I had and developing some skills that I didn't know I needed until now---in search of a simpler life.

Monday, November 9, 2015

Celebrating the double nickle

This is the second time that I've been back in my hometown of Houston after leaving on my RV adventure last May. I had nine days to spend with my favorite people and to celebrate my 55th birthday. Reid and I found a four bedroom house to rent in Sugar Land on Airbnb so he could spend some time with his boys on the weekends. He was able to work from the house and I spent a good portion of the week in search of a used 4WD vehicle to take with me back to CO.

While I was in Houston, I heard that it had snowed a foot at the lake in Vallecito so I'm looking forward to getting back to see what that looks and feels like.

It was interesting being back in Houston. I've never thought of Houston as pretty but you get used to where you are living. Having been on the lake in the mountains surrounded by beautiful trees, I'm reminded why I was keen to leave.....not just to find a simpler life but also to find a more beautiful place to live it. Whether or not I'm tough enough for the cold weather and the snow or not is yet to be determined.

I had a great birthday. Reid took me to Hugo's on Westheimer for a romantic dinner—just the two of us. Also, I got to visit with my friends from Chevron over a long lunch at the Raven Grill near my old stomping grounds near the Museum District. Kent and I drove 90 miles NE from Houston to Livingston to have a home prepared lunch and birthday cake with my mom and her husband on a wet, rainy day.

Happy birthday to me!


I was sad to hear about all of my friends who have been affected by the reduction of what Chevron likes to call human energy. Many have selected to take a package or else they had to apply for and compete for fewer positions and/or risk losing their jobs altogether. I'm glad I wasn't there to experience it. I can't imagine going to work every day wondering whether or not you're going to have a job and/or for how long. My heart goes out to my friends and colleagues during these turbulent times.